Bu hayatta \u00e7o\u011fumuzun ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n sonucunda , bu d\u00fcnyadan yok olmak istedi\u011fi olmu\u015ftur. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki g\u00fcc\u00fcn fark\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zamanlard\u0131r bu anlar. Kendimizi ve do\u011fam\u0131z\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 kabul ederiz ve en ufak ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131kta dipte oldu\u011fumuzu sanar\u0131z. Biraz yukar\u0131lara \u00e7\u0131kmak istedi\u011fimizde, \u00e7evremizdekiler taraf\u0131ndan yapamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, ba\u015faramayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131z hat\u0131rlat\u0131l\u0131r; haddimizi bilmemiz gerekti\u011fi s\u00f6ylenir. Hayal kurma g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz elimizden al\u0131nmak istenir. Biz de \u00e7ok \u015fey istedi\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, hayallerimizden vazge\u00e7eriz ve di\u011fer insanlar gibi olmay\u0131, risk almadan, ad\u0131m atmadan ya\u015famay\u0131 kabul ederiz. Bizi \u00f6\u011frenmeye, geli\u015fmeye iten i\u00e7imizdeki sesi susturur , ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011framaktan korkmak zorunda da kalmay\u0131z. Oysaki i\u00e7imizdeki korkular\u0131m\u0131zla y\u00fczle\u015ferek , ba\u015farmak, \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in kendini duyurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan i\u00e7 sesimizi dinleyerek, hayatta ya\u015famak i\u00e7in ne \u00e7ok neden oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rebiliriz. Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n her g\u00fcn tekrarlad\u0131klar\u0131 \u015feyleri biz de aynen tekrarlamak zorunda de\u011filiz. Cehaletimizi k\u0131rabiliriz, becerilerimizi yeteneklerimizi ve zekam\u0131z\u0131 kullanarak kendimizi bulabilir, kendimiz olabiliriz. En \u00f6nemlisi \u00f6zg\u00fcr olabiliriz. Ya\u015famay\u0131 , ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz. Gelece\u011fe umutla bakabiliriz. Bu ya\u015fam\u0131n amac\u0131n\u0131n, her g\u00fcn\u00fc birbirinin ayn\u0131s\u0131, tekrarlardan olu\u015fan bir hayat olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bilincine ve g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131na inananarak fark\u0131na varabiliriz. Sadece g\u00f6zlerimizi aralay\u0131p birazc\u0131k ileriye bakmam\u0131z yeterli. \u0130\u00e7imizde bizi engellemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan korku, bezginlik, umutsuz gibi duygular\u0131n bizi geli\u015fmekten al\u0131koyan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler oldu\u011funun ay\u0131rd\u0131na varabilmek gerekli. \u0130yinin m\u00fckemmelin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 yoktur. D\u00fc\u015flerini , hayallerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in, \u015fimdiden oraya vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmeli ve kabul etmelisin. Ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ne istedi\u011fini bilerek hayal kuran ve kendini orda g\u00f6ren ki\u015fi ba\u015farm\u0131\u015f demektir. Hayal kurmak, istemek ba\u015farman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. En y\u00fckseklere gidebilen ki\u015fi , en uza\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6ren ve bunun hayalini daha \u00f6nceden kuran ki\u015fidir. Uza\u011f\u0131, varaca\u011f\u0131n noktay\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmelisin, ya\u015famal\u0131s\u0131n o an\u0131. Uza\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmek, ancak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin zincirlerini k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n s\u00fcrece ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir. \u0130stedi\u011fimiz noktada kalmak ve istedi\u011fimiz yere gitmeyi istemekte \u00f6zg\u00fcr\u00fcz. \u00d6zg\u00fcr olarak do\u011fduk, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck do\u011fam\u0131zda var. Hedefe varmak i\u00e7in, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u0131n\u0131rlayacak her \u015feyi bir kenara koyabilme cesaretini g\u00f6sterebilmelisin, di\u011ferlerinin ne s\u00f6yledi\u011fi, gelenekler ya da herhangi s\u0131n\u0131rlay\u0131c\u0131 inan\u00e7lar\u0131. Bizi s\u0131n\u0131rlayan bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri , inan\u00e7lar\u0131 sab\u0131rla a\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z. G\u00f6r\u00fcnenlerin hepsi s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Hayata ger\u00e7ekten anlayarak bakarak ve her zorlu\u011fun, her ki\u015finin i\u00e7indeki g\u00fczellikleri g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak ger\u00e7ekten sevebilir ve hayallerimizin pe\u015finden inan\u00e7la giderek onlara ula\u015fabiliriz.<\/p>\n
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