{"id":1949,"date":"2013-08-01T14:42:04","date_gmt":"2013-08-01T14:42:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=1949"},"modified":"2021-08-11T16:11:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T16:11:20","slug":"kararsizlik-yikici-bir-aliskanliktir-ozlem-aktas-nlp-kocu-egitmen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/kararsizlik-yikici-bir-aliskanliktir-ozlem-aktas-nlp-kocu-egitmen\/","title":{"rendered":"Karars\u0131zl\u0131k Y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 Bir  Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131kt\u0131r  &#8211; \u00d6zlem AKTA\u015e  Nlp Kocu, E\u011fitmen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Karar verememek, karars\u0131zl\u0131k ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcndeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck engellerdendir. Karars\u0131z olmay\u0131 daha \u00e7ocuk ya\u015flardayken \u00f6\u011freniriz. Ne yapmak istedi\u011fimizi bilmeden, birka\u00e7 se\u00e7ene\u011fin ne ifade etti\u011fini \u00e7ok idrak edemeden ve idrak etsek bile hangisinin bizi ama\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131za ta\u015f\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilemeden y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 heba ederiz. Hatta ortaokul, lise, \u00fcniversiteden kesin bir kararl\u0131l\u0131k olmadan ge\u00e7mek kal\u0131c\u0131 bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k halini al\u0131r. Karars\u0131zl\u0131k al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenciyi se\u00e7ti\u011fi meslekte de izler, tabi ki meslek se\u00e7ebilirse. Genellikle okuldan \u00e7\u0131kan bir gen\u00e7 kolay bulunabilecek i\u015fi tercih eder. Buldu\u011fu ilk i\u015fe girer \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc karars\u0131zd\u0131r ve ne istedi\u011fini bilmiyordur. Bug\u00fcn i\u015f hayat\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ok insan ne istedi\u011fini bilmedi\u011fi ve yeterince kararl\u0131 olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in severek \u00e7al\u0131\u015facaklar\u0131 bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamakta ve mevcuttaki i\u015fleri onlar\u0131 tatmin etmese dahi kendilerini mecbur hissettikleri i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam etmektedirler. Kesin kararl\u0131l\u0131k cesaret ister ve hayat cesurlar\u0131 sever ve ya\u015fam rahatl\u0131k alan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bitti\u011fi yerde ba\u015flar. Cesur ve kararl\u0131 bir ad\u0131m, bizi hayallerimize g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek fi\u015fekleyici g\u00fc\u00e7 olacakt\u0131r. Bir ara\u015ft\u0131rma, uzaya g\u00f6nderilen ara\u00e7lar\u0131n ilk kalk\u0131\u015f an\u0131nda harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yak\u0131t\u0131n, d\u00fcnya etraf\u0131nda dola\u015fmak i\u00e7in harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yak\u0131ttan fazla oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermektedir. Asl\u0131nda ilk ad\u0131m, ilk enerji, g\u00fc\u00e7 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Kararl\u0131 davranmak, ne istedi\u011fini bilmek ve ad\u0131m atmak i\u015fin \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015farmam\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 isteyen ve bu kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6steren ki\u015filerin ba\u015far\u0131ya, hedeflerine ula\u015fmalar\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Hayatta hep bir \u015feyler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve fikirler \u00fcretiriz ancak yeterince kararl\u0131 olup, eyleme ge\u00e7medik\u00e7e bir anlam\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r. Mezarl\u0131klar eyleme ge\u00e7memi\u015f bir s\u00fcr\u00fc yarat\u0131c\u0131 fikirle doludur maalesef. Bu sebeple \u00f6zellikle \u00f6\u011frencilerimizin hayatlar\u0131 ile ilgili kararlar\u0131 verirken ne istediklerini, neyi ama\u00e7lad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bilmeleri gerekir. Nas\u0131l bir i\u015f onlar\u0131 hayallerine ta\u015f\u0131yacakt\u0131r? Bu soruyu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek ve hayalini kurmak yap\u0131lacak ilk i\u015ftir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6nce hayal gelir. Sonra hayallerden ama\u00e7lar ve hedefler olu\u015fturulur. Koclukta \u00f6zelikle \u00f6\u011frenci ko\u00e7lu\u011funda&nbsp; gen\u00e7lerimizin arzular\u0131n\u0131 destekleyecek i\u015flere, hayata kavu\u015fmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in aksiyon ad\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n belirlenmesi ve bu ad\u0131mlar\u0131n at\u0131lmas\u0131nda destek olunmaktad\u0131r. &nbsp;Sizler yasam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kocu olun. Karar vermenizi kolayla\u015ft\u0131racak etkenleri belirleyerek i\u015fe ba\u015flay\u0131n. Kendinize g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc sorular sorun. Neyi ba\u015farmak istiyorsunuz? Kararl\u0131l\u0131kla arkas\u0131nda durmak istedi\u011finiz, pe\u015finden gitmek istedi\u011finiz hayaliniz nedir ? \u0130lk ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131kta bizi eski al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7eken davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme konusunda kararl\u0131 olmak en \u00f6nemli aksiyondur. T\u0131pk\u0131 bir bebe\u011fin y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi gibi, d\u00fc\u015fsek de kalkabilece\u011fimizi, hatta daha da g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olabilece\u011fimizi hat\u0131rlayarak yeni davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n pe\u015finden kararl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde gidin. Kararl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir eylemdir. Ve ancak rahatl\u0131k alan\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, bir \u015feylere ula\u015fma imkan\u0131n\u0131 yakalars\u0131n\u0131z. \u00d6yleyse i\u00e7inizdeki g\u00fcc\u00fc fark edin , ate\u015fi tutu\u015fturun,&nbsp; en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck eylem bile, hareketsizlikten iyidir. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kararlar vererek i\u015fe ba\u015flay\u0131n. At\u0131lan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ad\u0131mlar g\u00fcn gelecek tsunami etkisi yaratacakt\u0131r. G\u00fcn gelecek sizi hayallerinizdeki ya\u015fama ula\u015ft\u0131racak o g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc karar\u0131 verecek cesareti g\u00f6stermenizi sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte mutlaka kararlar verdiniz ve istedi\u011finize ula\u015ft\u0131n\u0131z, yine yapabilirsiniz. Karars\u0131zl\u0131k hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan kurtulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn , i\u015fin s\u0131rr\u0131 hemen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa ad\u0131m atmak. Hemen \u015fimdi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir karar verin ve harekete ge\u00e7in.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zlem AKTA\u015e &#8211; Nlp Ko\u00e7u, E\u011fitmen<\/p>\n<p>(224) 2434314<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Online E\u011fitimlere kay\u0131t i\u00e7in; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.plenahuman.com\/\">www.plenahuman.com<\/a> internet sitemizi ziyaret edebilirsiniz. T\u00fcm <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.plenahuman.com\/\">online e\u011fitimler<\/a>i<\/em>mize sitemizden ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Karar verememek, karars\u0131zl\u0131k ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcndeki en b\u00fcy\u00fck engellerdendir. Karars\u0131z olmay\u0131 daha \u00e7ocuk ya\u015flardayken \u00f6\u011freniriz. Ne yapmak istedi\u011fimizi bilmeden, birka\u00e7 se\u00e7ene\u011fin ne ifade etti\u011fini \u00e7ok idrak edemeden ve idrak etsek bile [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[500,501,502,111,85,503,233,117,450,317,109],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1949"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1949"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1949\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4494,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1949\/revisions\/4494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1949"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1949"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1949"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}