{"id":2517,"date":"2014-06-26T14:52:56","date_gmt":"2014-06-26T14:52:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=2517"},"modified":"2021-08-11T15:43:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T15:43:26","slug":"topluluk-onunde-konusma-korkunuzu-onemseyerek-asin-ozlem-aktas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/topluluk-onunde-konusma-korkunuzu-onemseyerek-asin-ozlem-aktas\/","title":{"rendered":"Topluluk \u00d6n\u00fcnde Konu\u015fma Korkunuzu \u00d6nemseyerek A\u015f\u0131n &#8211; \u00d6zlem Akta\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1_100.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2518\" title=\"1_100\" src=\"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1_100.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"160\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn yazmak istedi\u011fim konu,&nbsp;&nbsp;d\u00fcnyadaki en \u00f6nemli korkuyu a\u015fmak \u00fczerine. Korkular\u0131m\u0131z, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 istedi\u011fimiz y\u00f6nde ilerletmemizi engelleyen, ya\u015fam enerjimizi alan duygusal s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Hepimiz hayat yolculu\u011funda ilerlerken baz\u0131 korku ve hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 ya\u015far\u0131z. Belki de bunlardan en ac\u0131s\u0131 birilerinin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p, korkun\u00e7 bir son ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmakt\u0131r. Peki sizi ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir \u015fekilde konu\u015fmaktan al\u0131koyan nedir? Hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Bu konuda en son ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 neydi? Size ne kadar ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuzu s\u00f6yleyen g\u00f6zler mi? Peki sorun neredeydi ? Kendiniz en son ne zaman bu kadar \u00e7aresiz, k\u00f6t\u00fc, mutsuz oldu\u011funuzu hat\u0131rlam\u0131yor musunuz? Evet birilerinin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p ger\u00e7ek benli\u011finizi ifade edememenin ne kadar zor oldu\u011funu anlayabiliyoruz ve biliyoruz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes bir \u015fekilde buna benzer olumsuz bir deneyim ya\u015fam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Birilerinin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda kendimizi k\u00f6t\u00fc hissetmemizin, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k alg\u0131s\u0131na kap\u0131lmam\u0131z\u0131n baz\u0131 nedenleri vard\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin; hepimiz baz\u0131 gereksinimler i\u00e7erisindeyizdir. Birilerinin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nemsenmek isteri , birilerinin anlatt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za sayg\u0131 duymas\u0131n\u0131 bekleriz. Kayg\u0131ya, korkuya kap\u0131lmam\u0131z\u0131n en temel nedenlerinden biri \u00f6nemsenmeyece\u011fimiz korkusudur. Ya elalem bizi be\u011fenmezse, ya bizi yeterince iyi bulmay\u0131p, dinlemeye de\u011fer g\u00f6rmezlerse d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi pani\u011fe kap\u0131lmam\u0131za sebep olur. Bizi yeterince \u00f6nemsemeleri de yetmez; takdir edilmek isteriz, onaylanmak, iyi bir \u015feyler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n onay\u0131n\u0131 almak isteriz. E\u011fer yeterince be\u011fenilmek, takdir edilmek istiyorsak, potansiyelimizi a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karabilmeli ve kullanabilmeliyiz. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fte kazanmak istedi\u011fimiz sayg\u0131nl\u0131k arzusu, onaylanma, be\u011fenilmek arzusu ki\u015fiyi ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 i\u015f \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya zorlar ve belli disiplin, tekrarlar, pratikler sonucunda almak istedi\u011finiz sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 daha kolay almaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 fark edersiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 konu\u015fmac\u0131 olman\u0131n yolu, kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini \u00f6nemsemek, de\u011fer vermek ve faydal\u0131 bir \u015feyler yapmay\u0131 arzulamakt\u0131r. Bu arzu sizi ba\u015far\u0131, tatmin ve usta konu\u015fmac\u0131 olmaya g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek, korkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcstesinden gelmenizi sa\u011flayacak&nbsp;&nbsp;olan bir etkendir. \u00d6nemsenmek istiyorsak, \u00f6nce biz \u00f6nemsemeliyiz. Her ne yap\u0131yorsak yapal\u0131m, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k, katt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fer, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u015feyi \u00f6nemsemek, sevgi, payla\u015fma arzusu size ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 kolayl\u0131kla getirecektir. Ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n ve korkular\u0131 a\u015fman\u0131n yolu;&nbsp; yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z adand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her ne ise, severek, \u00f6nemseyerek yapmakt\u0131r. Ba\u015far\u0131 sadece bazen bir ad\u0131m \u00f6tededir &nbsp;hat\u0131rlay\u0131n, bu sebeple korkular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00fczerine onlar\u0131 da \u00f6nemseyerek ve kolay hale gelinceye kadar \u00e7aba sarf ederek gitmeyi hayat felsefesi haline getirirseniz ba\u015far\u0131 sizindir.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n,<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zlem Akta\u015f &#8211; Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim Uzman\u0131, E\u011fitmen<\/p>\n<p>(224)2434314<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Online E\u011fitimlere kay\u0131t i\u00e7in; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.plenahuman.com\/\">www.plenahuman.com<\/a> internet sitemizi ziyaret edebilirsiniz. T\u00fcm <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.plenahuman.com\/\">online e\u011fitimler<\/a>i<\/em>mize sitemizden ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Bug\u00fcn yazmak istedi\u011fim konu,&nbsp;&nbsp;d\u00fcnyadaki en \u00f6nemli korkuyu a\u015fmak \u00fczerine. Korkular\u0131m\u0131z, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 istedi\u011fimiz y\u00f6nde ilerletmemizi engelleyen, ya\u015fam enerjimizi alan duygusal s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Hepimiz hayat yolculu\u011funda ilerlerken baz\u0131 korku ve hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,1,853],"tags":[850,851,849,183,848,852,812],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2517"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2517"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2517\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4433,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2517\/revisions\/4433"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}