{"id":2963,"date":"2014-11-20T21:20:45","date_gmt":"2014-11-20T21:20:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=2963"},"modified":"2021-08-11T15:15:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T15:15:14","slug":"iliski-mi-bagimlilik-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/iliski-mi-bagimlilik-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fk M\u0131? Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k M\u0131?-\u0130nci Akta\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"

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‘Hakk\u2019\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fimlere direnmek yerine, teslim ol. B\u0131rak hayat sana ra\u011fmen de\u011fil, seninle beraber aks\u0131n. “D\u00fczenim bozulur, hayat\u0131m\u0131n alt\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcne gelir” diye endi\u015fe etme. Nereden biliyorsun hayat\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden daha iyi olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131?, Tebrizli \u015eems<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Biri size gelse ,dayaktan y\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6z\u00fc morarm\u0131\u015f olsa ve size \u2018kocam beni \u00e7ok d\u00f6v\u00fcyor ama seviyorum\u2019 dese, ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k deyince akl\u0131n\u0131za alkol,sigara ya da uyu\u015fturucu mu geliyor? Peki ya evlilikler,ili\u015fkiler? \u201cBana sadece,beni d\u00f6verken ilgi g\u00f6steriyor\u201d diyen kad\u0131n sizce e\u015fini seviyor mu? Bizi en \u00e7ok \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtan \u015fey de i\u015fte budur.<\/em><\/p>\n

Biz buna, bildik alanda kalma g\u00fcd\u00fcs\u00fc diyoruz. Bu hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne gelece\u011fi korkusudur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, bildik alan g\u00fcvenlidir. G\u00fcvensizli\u011fin i\u00e7indeki g\u00fcvendir o. Ne de olsa bildiktir, tan\u0131d\u0131kt\u0131r. Sorunlar b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Ama nas\u0131l ba\u015f edece\u011finizi bilirsiniz. \u00d6\u011frenmi\u015fsinizdir.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0130li\u015fkinizde do\u011fru gitmeyen bir \u015feyler oldu\u011funu anlamak i\u00e7in sadece fiziksel \u015fiddet olmas\u0131 da gerekmez, baz\u0131 ili\u015fkiler\u00a0 ac\u0131 doludur, mutsuzluk doludur, huzursuzluk, tatminsizlik ve sevgisizlik doludur ama ki\u015fi i\u00e7in tan\u0131d\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bu alandan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca ne yapacaks\u0131n\u0131z? E\u011fer ili\u015fkiniz bir ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcyse, ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 oldu\u011funuz ki\u015fi olmadan bir gelecek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliyor musunuz?<\/em><\/p>\n

Esaretin Bedeli filmini izlemediyseniz tavsiye ederim. Ya\u015flan\u0131ncaya kadar \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc hapisanede ge\u00e7iren ya\u015fl\u0131 adam, tahliye olduktan bir ka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra, art\u0131k ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in intihar eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bildik alana geri d\u00f6nmek ister ama d\u00f6nemez. Oras\u0131 konforlu ve g\u00fcvenli de\u011fildir ama bildiktir.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

E\u011fer ili\u015fkinizide kendinizi mutsuz ve huzursuz hissediyorsan\u0131z, \u0130lk yapman\u0131z gereken \u015fey, ili\u015fkinizin a\u015fk m\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k m\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektir. E\u011fer ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131ksa, belki de yeni bir hayat tasarlaman\u0131n zaman\u0131 gelmi\u015ftir. Ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131ktan kurtulman\u0131n yolu dengeden ge\u00e7er. Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n her alan\u0131nda denge sa\u011flarsan\u0131z size sadece yeni hayat\u0131n\u0131za adapte olmak kal\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sevgiyle kal\u0131n..<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0130nci Akta\u015f<\/em><\/p>\n

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‘Hakk\u2019\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fimlere direnmek yerine, teslim ol. B\u0131rak hayat sana ra\u011fmen de\u011fil, seninle beraber aks\u0131n. “D\u00fczenim bozulur, hayat\u0131m\u0131n alt\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcne gelir” diye endi\u015fe etme. Nereden biliyorsun hayat\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[31],"tags":[1104,98,701,58,180,1103,109],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2963"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2963"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2963\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4393,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2963\/revisions\/4393"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2963"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2963"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2963"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}