{"id":3003,"date":"2014-12-24T14:49:19","date_gmt":"2014-12-24T14:49:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=3003"},"modified":"2021-08-11T15:13:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T15:13:45","slug":"etkiyle-tepki-arasinda-her-zaman-secme-ozgurlugu-vardir-inci-aktas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/etkiyle-tepki-arasinda-her-zaman-secme-ozgurlugu-vardir-inci-aktas\/","title":{"rendered":"Etkiyle Tepki Aras\u0131nda Her Zaman Se\u00e7me \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc Vard\u0131r ! \u0130nci Akta\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Neden ileti\u015fim kuram\u0131yoruz ya da neden ileti\u015fim \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yoruz? \u00d6rne\u011fin erkek bir maymun, u\u00e7urumdan d\u00fc\u015fmekte olan di\u015fi bir maymunu kurtarmak i\u00e7in kucaklarsa, kar\u015f\u0131dan h\u0131zla yakla\u015fan di\u015fi maymunun erkek arkada\u015f\u0131, kurtar\u0131c\u0131 erkek maymunu yumruklamak ister mi? Bu ihtimal, ini\u015fe ge\u00e7mi\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yolcu u\u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda eli kom\u015fusu taraf\u0131ndan aniden tutulan gen\u00e7 ve g\u00fczel bir k\u0131z\u0131n olay\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f anlama ihtimalinden \u00e7ok daha azd\u0131r.. Hayvanlar aleminde yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lma yoktur.<\/p>\n

Neden ileti\u015fim \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yoruz sorusuna cevap verebilmek i\u00e7in ki\u015fileraras\u0131 ileti\u015fimin unsurlar\u0131ndan \u00f6zellikle \u2018bili\u015f\u2019i g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmekte fayda g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n

Bili\u015fsel davran\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131m kapsam\u0131nda Ellis taraf\u0131ndan ortaya konulan ABC modeline g\u00f6re, A bizi etkileyen belirli bir olay, B bu olaya ili\u015fkin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimiz, C ise bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin etkisiyle ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan duygular\u0131m\u0131z ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda C sonucuna daima A olay\u0131n\u0131n sebep oldu\u011funu san\u0131r\u0131z. Ancak o olay kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederiz.<\/p>\n

Oysa hi\u00e7bir olay tek ba\u015f\u0131na hi\u00e7bir anlam ifade etmez. Bu olaya anlam y\u00fckleyen, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla y\u00fckledi\u011fimiz anlam\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayan bizleriz.<\/p>\n

Ne ya\u015farsak ya\u015fayal\u0131m, etkiyle tepki aras\u0131nda her zaman psikolojik bir mesafe vard\u0131r. Bu mesafe kiminde bir saniye, kiminde bir dakika olsa da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizi ve tepkimizi se\u00e7ebiliriz.<\/p>\n

\u015eimdi, son zamanlarda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir ileti\u015fim \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, farkl\u0131 davransayd\u0131n\u0131z olay\u0131n sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015firdi? Biraz daha ileri gidersek, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnseydiniz, davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fi\u015fir miydi? Kesinlikle de\u011fi\u015firdi\u2026<\/p>\n

NLP\u2019nin en \u00f6nemli \u00f6n varsay\u0131mlar\u0131ndan birisi, herkesin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda kendince olumlu bir niyet vard\u0131r, varsay\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r. Bir dahaki sefere, herhangi bir ki\u015finin herhangi bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na tepki vermeden \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u2026Ancak bu sefer negatif de\u011fil pozitif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda kendince olu\u015fturdu\u011fu olumlu niyeti aray\u0131n ve tepkinizin ne kadar farkl\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Sevgiyle,<\/p>\n

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Neden ileti\u015fim kuram\u0131yoruz ya da neden ileti\u015fim \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yoruz? \u00d6rne\u011fin erkek bir maymun, u\u00e7urumdan d\u00fc\u015fmekte olan di\u015fi bir maymunu kurtarmak i\u00e7in kucaklarsa, kar\u015f\u0131dan h\u0131zla yakla\u015fan di\u015fi maymunun erkek arkada\u015f\u0131, kurtar\u0131c\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[22,410,78,212,109],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3003"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3003"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3003\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4389,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3003\/revisions\/4389"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3003"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3003"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3003"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}