{"id":3580,"date":"2017-04-04T13:20:27","date_gmt":"2017-04-04T13:20:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=3580"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:22:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:22:16","slug":"insan-kac-kere-tutar-yandikca-atesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/insan-kac-kere-tutar-yandikca-atesi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsan Ka\u00e7 Kere Tutar Yand\u0131k\u00e7a Ate\u015fi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3581\" src=\"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/335137-3-4-ba838-300x216.jpg\" alt=\"335137-3-4-ba838\" width=\"300\" height=\"216\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/335137-3-4-ba838-300x216.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/335137-3-4-ba838.jpg 333w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>E\u011fer hi\u00e7 yan\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmeseydiniz, ate\u015fe yakla\u015fmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenemezdiniz. Peki hala yakla\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z bile bile.. Bir \u015fark\u0131da dedi\u011fi gibi insan ka\u00e7 kere tutar yand\u0131k\u00e7a ate\u015fi? Gitgide ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yaralar\u0131n \u00e7oklu\u011fu ve a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 fark etmemeye mi ba\u015flad\u0131? Bir \u00e7ok ki\u015fi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 ve ac\u0131l\u0131 ili\u015fkisine ra\u011fmen rahatl\u0131k alan\u0131n\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve s\u00f6z konusu ki\u015fi olmadan bir gelecek d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in son derece ac\u0131l\u0131 ve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 ili\u015fkisine devam eder. \u00a0Asl\u0131nda bu hi\u00e7 de rahat bir alan de\u011fildir, ki\u015fi i\u00e7in tan\u0131d\u0131k bildik aland\u0131r. Bu alanda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131larla nas\u0131l ba\u015f edebilece\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f ve bu y\u00fckle hayat\u0131na devam etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. Bir \u015fekilde gelece\u011fin bilinmezli\u011finden a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in tabir-i caizse kan\u0131n\u0131 emen ili\u015fkiye tutunmu\u015f kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bir ili\u015fki iki taraf\u0131 da b\u00fcy\u00fctebilmelidir. Oysa bir \u00e7ok ili\u015fkide bir taraf di\u011ferinin enerjisini t\u00fcketerek varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. Daha \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc olan durum ise, art\u0131k bu taraf ili\u015fkiden \u00e7ekip gitmi\u015f olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen di\u011fer taraf\u0131n \u00f6zlemle bekliyor olmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u015eimdi insanlar\u0131n bu tip bir ili\u015fki ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan kurtulup nas\u0131l \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fece\u011fini merak ediyor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>1-\u00c7ocuklu\u011funuzla Bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n: i\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fa tekrar ba\u011flanma, onu affetme, onu sevme, onunla bar\u0131\u015fma ve yeniden b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fme \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 yap\u0131n. \u00c7ocukluk resimlerinizle konu\u015fun. G\u00f6zlerinizin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131n ve \u2018seni seviyorum\u2019 deyin. Kendi de\u011ferini yaln\u0131zca kendinin belirleyece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyin. Bunu hayal ederek, imajinasyon \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131yla da yapabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>2-S\u00f6z konusu ki\u015fiyi ve kendinizi affedin. Affetmek ger\u00e7ek bir re\u00e7etedir. Ac\u0131lardan kurtulma g\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr. E\u011fer tam anlam\u0131yla iyile\u015fmek istiyorsan\u0131z affedin. E\u011fer tekrar kendinizle b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmek istiyorsan\u0131z en \u00e7ok da kendinizi affedin.<\/p>\n<p>3-Mutlulu\u011funuzun bir ba\u015fka ki\u015fiye ba\u011fl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edin ve kabul edin. Varolu\u015f amac\u0131n\u0131za odaklan\u0131n. Sevin, \u015f\u00fckredin, \u00a0yard\u0131m edin ve i\u00e7sel ne\u015fenizi yeniden ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>4-Zihninizde yeni ve mutlu bir gelece\u011fin hayalini yarat\u0131n, hissedin ve ad\u0131m at\u0131n. Bunu adeta ya\u015fay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn \u015fans\u0131zl\u0131k ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz ama y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz bu yolda bir sonraki k\u00f6\u015fe ba\u015f\u0131nda mutlaka \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131l\u0131 bir \u015feyler g\u00f6z\u00fckecektir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te yapabilece\u011finiz tek \u015fey ak\u0131\u015fta olmak ve her g\u00fcn\u00fcn de\u011ferini bilerek ya\u015famakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Eric Fromm\u2019un da s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi: \u2018Her insan mutlu olamaz\u2026\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc gere\u011finden fazla \u00f6zler d\u00fcn\u00fc, hak etti\u011finden fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr yar\u0131n\u0131 ve hi\u00e7 hak etmedi\u011fi kadar bilin\u00e7sizce ya\u015far bug\u00fcn\u00fc. Her insan mutlu olamaz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc; gere\u011finden fazla \u00f6zler hayat\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kanlar\u0131,.Hak etti\u011finden daha b\u00fcy\u00fck umutla bekler hayat\u0131na girecekleri ve asla g\u00f6remez yan\u0131ba\u015f\u0131ndakileri..\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi kendi de\u011ferini bilme vakti..<\/p>\n<p>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n,<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nci AKTA\u015e<\/p>\n<p>Hipnoterapist &amp; Profesyonel Ko\u00e7<\/p>\n<p>Hipnoterapi Bursa<\/p>\n<p>Online E\u011fitimlere kay\u0131t i\u00e7in; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.plenahuman.com\/\">www.plenahuman.com<\/a> internet sitemizi ziyaret edebilirsiniz. T\u00fcm <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.plenahuman.com\/\">online e\u011fitimler<\/a>i<\/em>mize sitemizden ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E\u011fer hi\u00e7 yan\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden ac\u0131 \u00e7ekmeseydiniz, ate\u015fe yakla\u015fmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenemezdiniz. Peki hala yakla\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z bile bile.. Bir \u015fark\u0131da dedi\u011fi gibi insan ka\u00e7 kere tutar yand\u0131k\u00e7a ate\u015fi? Gitgide ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yaralar\u0131n \u00e7oklu\u011fu ve a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,1],"tags":[1110,145,1256,240,229,140,265,1298,58],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3580"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3580"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3580\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4318,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3580\/revisions\/4318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3580"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3580"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3580"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}