{"id":4107,"date":"2019-12-10T10:20:22","date_gmt":"2019-12-10T10:20:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=4107"},"modified":"2026-04-04T13:11:13","modified_gmt":"2026-04-04T13:11:13","slug":"iliskilerde-kiskanclik-zararli-bir-duygu-mudur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/iliskilerde-kiskanclik-zararli-bir-duygu-mudur\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fkilerde k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k Zararl\u0131 bir Duygu mudur?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Erkek ve kad\u0131n k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunu farkl\u0131 ya\u015farlar, ili\u015fkiye zarar veren duygular de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k zay\u0131fl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr ve erkek ve kad\u0131n\u0131n Cephesi&#8217;nde farkl\u0131 \u015fekilde ifade bulur .Oysaki iki tarafta neden k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hissetti\u011fini do\u011fru yorumlayarak kar\u015f\u0131dakine yarg\u0131lamadan ve su\u00e7lamadan duygusunu g\u00f6sterebilir, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hislerinin do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmemesi kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa \u00f6fke ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k biriktirmeye sebep olur ve s\u00fcrekli artan g\u00fcvensizlik ili\u015fkiye daha b\u00fcy\u00fck zararlar verir, duyguyu ve hislerimizi kar\u015f\u0131 taraftan intikam almak ya da zarar vermek i\u00e7in ifade edersek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan yaralar a\u00e7abiliriz. Oysaki bu duygunun \u00e7ok daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ifade \u015fekli vard\u0131r, duygumuzu ifade etmenin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck duruma d\u00fc\u015fmek ile ilgisi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 korkular\u0131m\u0131z y\u00fcz\u00fcnden \u00e7arpt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n Asl\u0131nda daha \u00e7ok ili\u015fkimize zarar verdi\u011fini fark etti\u011fimizde duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ifade etmeye daha istekli olabiliriz, hepimiz de\u011ferli hissetmek istiyoruz, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak istiyoruz ama k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k \u00fczerinden bunu yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak ili\u015fkiye daha \u00e7ok zarar verir .kendimizi de\u011fersiz hissetti\u011finiz durumlar\u0131 belirleyip bunu do\u011fru bir bi\u00e7imde ifade etti\u011fimizde ili\u015fkiye zarar vermek yerine ili\u015fkimizi b\u00fcy\u00fctmenin geli\u015ftirmenin yolunu a\u00e7ar\u0131z. Korkularla hareket etmek yerine duygular\u0131m\u0131zla y\u00fczle\u015fmek sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir birey olman\u0131n yoludur.<\/p>\n<p>Psikoterapist, Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131, \u0130li\u015fki Terapisti ve Dan\u0131\u015fman \u00d6zlem Akta\u015f<\/p>\n<p>\u0130leti\u015fim 05335179512<\/p>\n<p>\u0130stanbul ve Bursa&#8217;da Y\u00fczy\u00fcze seanslar ve t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyada online seanslar i\u00e7in ise, 02242434314 nolu telefondan bize ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>#k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k #ili\u015fkiler #ailedan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 #hipnoterapi #plenahuman<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Erkek ve kad\u0131n k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusunu farkl\u0131 ya\u015farlar, ili\u015fkiye zarar veren duygular de\u011fil, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k zay\u0131fl\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr ve erkek ve kad\u0131n\u0131n Cephesi&#8217;nde farkl\u0131 \u015fekilde ifade bulur .Oysaki iki tarafta neden [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[1012,1545,1480,1619,1388,1618,1623,183,1544],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4107"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4107"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4107\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4798,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4107\/revisions\/4798"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}