G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u00fcnyas\u0131 insan\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunu; tatminsizlik, doyumsuzluk ve t\u00fckenmi\u015flik. Kendimize d\u00f6n\u00fck bu duygular\u0131n kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131racak sorular sordu\u011fumuzda \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u00e7evremize, insanl\u0131\u011fa ve kendimize ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc kaybetti\u011fimizi fark ederiz. Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olmak, anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmak bug\u00fcne seslenen bir de\u011ferdir, hatta en \u00f6nemli de\u011ferlerdir. Bunca \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, keder, ac\u0131 birbirimize katlanamaman\u0131n anlayamaman\u0131n sonucudur. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n durum ve ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 kendisi ile k\u0131yaslamadan anlayabilmektir ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve anlay\u0131\u015f. S\u0131n\u0131f, insan ay\u0131r\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n yap\u0131lmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama, unutma g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc g\u00f6sterme ve d\u00fcnyay\u0131 daha iyi h\u00e2le getirecek yollar\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rma arzusu ta\u015f\u0131ma durumudur. Di\u011fer ki\u015fileri \u00f6tekile\u015ftirmeden, benim gibi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi\u011fi i\u00e7in yarg\u0131lamadan anlamak , sevmek, affetmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc? Kinimiz ve k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ile hissetti\u011fimiz her t\u00fcr k\u00f6t\u00fc duygu kendi i\u00e7imizde cehennemi yaratarak, doyumsuz, tatminsiz t\u00fckenmi\u015f bir hayat ya\u015famam\u0131za sebep olur. \u0130ncitilebilme olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ma ra\u011fmen sevebilmek, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olmak, t\u00fcm ge\u00e7mi\u015f y\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131ma ra\u011fmen insan\u0131, insan oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in Yaradan’dan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc sevebilmek belki de en \u00e7ok ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z olan de\u011ferdir. Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve sevgi konusunda c\u00f6mert olabilmek ise, y\u00fcce ruhluluktur.
C\u00f6mertlik, sadece maddi c\u00f6mertlik de\u011fildir. Manevi yatk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n y\u00fcksek olmas\u0131 demektir. Destekleyici olabilmektir. Manevi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lara da ortak olabilmektir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zor zamanlar\u0131nda yan\u0131nda olabilmektir. Aristo\u2019ya g\u00f6re c\u00f6mertlik, birinin ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funda bencillik g\u00f6stermeksizin ona verilen destek ve \u00fcmittir. K\u0131saca insan olmakt\u0131r. Peki biz bu de\u011ferleri ne zaman unuttuk. Ruhsal s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar , hastal\u0131klar bu de\u011ferlerin unutulmas\u0131 ile ilgili olabilir mi? Herkes ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve sevgi de c\u00f6mert olabilse bu kadar s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve keder olur mu? Aile dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve terapilerinde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00e7iftlerin birbirine ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, sevgide c\u00f6mert olmamalar\u0131, Bireysel seanslar\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz; \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za , \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ekip arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za ve ailemize ne kadar anlay\u0131\u015f ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc de eksik oldu\u011fumuz, ne kadar sevgimizi payla\u015fma konusunda isteksiz oldu\u011fumuzdur. Bu kritik konular kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sorular sorabilmek ki\u015finin kendine, i\u00e7ine d\u00f6n\u00fcp ayna tutmas\u0131na ve belki bu y\u00f6nde bir ad\u0131m atmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir. Bu hayatta \u00f6nemli manevi de\u011ferlere sahip olmak bir nevi kendinin terapisti ve ko\u00e7u olmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7ar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ruhsal olarak iyilik halini kolayca olu\u015fturabilir. Biraz sevgi ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcde c\u00f6mert olmam\u0131z ve ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ko\u00e7u ve terapisti olmam\u0131z niyetiyle..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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