{"id":650,"date":"2011-11-22T21:42:05","date_gmt":"2011-11-22T21:42:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/?p=650"},"modified":"2021-08-11T16:35:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T16:35:51","slug":"dort-ayak-ustune-dusemeyen-sanssiz-kediye-ne-olur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/dort-ayak-ustune-dusemeyen-sanssiz-kediye-ne-olur\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00f6rt Ayak \u00dcst\u00fcne D\u00fc\u015femeyen \u015eanss\u0131z Kediye Ne Olur?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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‘Ben \u015fans\u0131z\u0131m’ \u00f6nermesinin arkas\u0131na saklanmak ne kadar i\u015fe yar\u0131yor? Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor mu? \u00dczg\u00fcn\u00fcm ama bir yarar sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kesin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her insan davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda kendi i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olumlu bir niyet yatar. \u015eanss\u0131zl\u0131k yakam\u0131 b\u0131rakm\u0131yor dendi\u011fini duyar\u0131m \u00e7o\u011fu zaman. Neden bu metaforu kullan\u0131yoruz, bize ne yarar\u0131 var?<\/p>\n

\u00d6nce bir \u015fey isteriz. Ve asl\u0131nda t\u00fcm benli\u011fimizle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeyece\u011finden korkar ve bilin\u00e7alt\u0131m\u0131zda ‘hadi ama, o sana gelir mi?’ diye inan\u00e7lar geli\u015ftiririz. Ve dile\u011fimiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ‘ben bunun olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zaten biliyordum.’ deriz. Peki ama siz neyi biliyordunuz? Dile\u011finizin kesin olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini mi, bunu hak etti\u011finizi mi yoksa hak etmedi\u011finizi mi?<\/p>\n

Sonra olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fimiz \u015feyler olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, olmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011fimiz \u015feyler de olmaya ba\u015flar. \u0130\u015fte, bir ta\u015fta iki ku\u015f vurdunuz (!) Tebrik ederim. Hem dile\u011finiz ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmedi, hem de siz art\u0131k \u015fanss\u0131z birisiniz.<\/p>\n

Bu sizin ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmekten korktu\u011funuz ve bu y\u00fczden herhangi bir ad\u0131m atmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, sonu\u00e7ta yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, bu y\u00fczden de size bumerang gibi geri d\u00f6nen \u015fanss\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z olmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n

32. kattan d\u00fc\u015fmek kedi i\u00e7in bir \u015fanss\u0131zl\u0131k olabilir ama o g\u00f6vdesini bir para\u015f\u00fct gibi kullanarak d\u00f6rt ayak \u00fcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015fmeyi becerebilir. Bu nedenle dilimizde ‘d\u00f6rt ayak \u00fcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015fmek’ deyimi, zor bir durumu hasars\u0131z atlatmak anlam\u0131na gelir. Y\u00fcksek bir yerden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp \u00f6len kediler yok mudur? Elbette vard\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bunlar s\u00f6z\u00fcm ona ‘\u015fanss\u0131z kediler’ dir.<\/p>\n

\u015eans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da \u015fanss\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da kendimiz yarat\u0131r\u0131z. S\u00fcrekli \u015fanss\u0131z hissetmek derinden gelen yo\u011fun bir duygu olu\u015fturdu\u011fu i\u00e7in hayat ak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bu y\u00f6ne y\u00f6nlendirir. Oysa hayat\u0131m\u0131zda iyi giden \u015feylere odaklan\u0131p g\u00fcnde bir kere kendimi \u015fansl\u0131 hissediyorum egzersizi yapabiliriz. Bunun yan\u0131nda Herhangi bir olumsuz durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda t\u00fcm korkular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kenara at\u0131p \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme odaklan\u0131rsak ve elbette y\u00fcrekten d\u00f6rt ayak \u00fcst\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015fece\u011fimize inan\u0131rsak att\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z top bize geri d\u00f6nmeyecektir.<\/p>\n

Evet ben kendimi \u015fansl\u0131 hissediyorum, ya siz?<\/p>\n

Sevgilerimle…<\/p>\n

\u0130nci AKTA\u015e<\/p>\n

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‘Ben \u015fans\u0131z\u0131m’ \u00f6nermesinin arkas\u0131na saklanmak ne kadar i\u015fe yar\u0131yor? Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor mu? \u00dczg\u00fcn\u00fcm ama bir yarar sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kesin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her insan davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda kendi i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olumlu bir niyet yatar. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[49,180,103],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/650"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=650"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/650\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4571,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/650\/revisions\/4571"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=650"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=650"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=650"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}