{"id":904,"date":"2012-06-18T10:48:46","date_gmt":"2012-06-18T10:48:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/?p=904"},"modified":"2021-08-11T16:21:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T16:21:54","slug":"cocuk-yetistirmek-zor-zanaat-yasam-kocu-inci-aktas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/cocuk-yetistirmek-zor-zanaat-yasam-kocu-inci-aktas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuk Yeti\u015ftirmek Zor Zanaat – Ya\u015fam Ko\u00e7u \u0130nci AKTA\u015e"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Ya\u015fam Ko\u00e7u NLP Uzman\u0131 \u0130nci AKTA\u015e<\/p>\n

Belki de \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmaya karar vermeden \u00f6nce derin derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi ve planlanmas\u0131 gereken konu bu\u2026 \u00c7ocu\u011fumu nas\u0131l yeti\u015ftirece\u011fim? \u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek ne demek?  \u00c7ocu\u011fumun geli\u015fimini nas\u0131l do\u011fru planlayabilirim?<\/p>\n

Bir insan\u0131n zihninin programlanmas\u0131, ana rahmine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anda ba\u015flar. Hipnoz \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 bize g\u00f6stermi\u015ftir ki, yeti\u015fkinlerde g\u00f6zlemlenen bir \u00e7ok kronik rahats\u0131zl\u0131k dahi, bebe\u011fin annenin karn\u0131ndayken her \u015feyi duydu\u011funu ve hissetti\u011fini unutmam\u0131zdan ya da bilmedi\u011fimizden kaynaklan\u0131yor.  Art\u0131k;  “O daha bebek, anlamaz” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan bir an \u00f6nce vazge\u00e7in. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ana rahmine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc andan itibaren ona sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ilk \u015fey, onu \u00e7ok istedi\u011finizi hissettirmektir. Sen de\u011ferlisin, sen bizim i\u00e7in \u00f6nemlisin\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirme sanat\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fa kendini de\u011ferli hissettirmekten ba\u015fka kural\u0131 yoktur. Bebek daha annenin karn\u0131ndayken onunla konu\u015fun. Annenin duygular\u0131 do\u011fmam\u0131\u015f bebe\u011fi derinden etkilemektedir. Bebek do\u011fduktan sonra annenin stresi s\u00fcte ge\u00e7ti\u011finden bebekler s\u00fct\u00fc bile reddetmektedirler.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer ruhen ve bedenen sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek istiyorsan\u0131z. Sevgiyle bezenmi\u015f, affetmeyi bilen, dostluk, payla\u015f\u0131m ve hayattan zevk almay\u0131 bilen bir aile ortam\u0131 yaratmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Elbette kurallar koyacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in bu kurallar\u0131 hi\u00e7e saymas\u0131na, ilerisine ge\u00e7mesine izin verin. B\u0131rak\u0131n ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frensin. Bir musibet bin nasihatten iyidir derler. Koydu\u011funuz kurallar \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hayat\u0131 anlamas\u0131na, gerekirse yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131p ders almas\u0131na yarayacak kurallar olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Her birey do\u011fu\u015ftan biri yapabiliyorsa ben de yapabilirim inanc\u0131yla do\u011far. Bu nedenle etraf\u0131ndaki y\u00fcr\u00fcyen insanlar\u0131 modelleyerek y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00f6\u011frenir. Ve di\u011fer her \u015feyi de modelleyerek \u00f6\u011frenir. E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6\u011frenme \u00e7abas\u0131 kurallarla engellenirse \u00e7ocuk kendini k\u00f6t\u00fc, yetersiz ve de\u011fersiz hissetmeye ba\u015flar. Ne yaz\u0131k ki biz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p da yapamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerde yard\u0131mc\u0131 olarak onlara iyilik etti\u011fimizi san\u0131r\u0131z. Bebe\u011fimiz masan\u0131n \u00fczerinden oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda elimizle ona do\u011fru ittiririz ve bebekte hemen o an ben yard\u0131m almadan tek ba\u015f\u0131ma yapamam inanc\u0131 olu\u015fmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

\u00d6zellikle ebeveynin ikisinin de \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ailelerde \u00e7ocu\u011fa daha az zaman ayr\u0131lmas\u0131 durumuyla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131z. Daha az ilgilenilen \u00e7ocuk, bir de sadece ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu zamanlarda \u00f6d\u00fcllendirildi\u011finde, \u00e7ocukta s\u00fcrekli beklentileri kar\u015f\u0131lamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bir de\u011fersizlik inanc\u0131 olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n

B\u0131rak\u0131n koltu\u011fa kendisi t\u0131rmanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, d\u00f6ke sa\u00e7a yemek yesin. Sadece ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman de\u011fil ba\u015faramad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilsin. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bazen sadece ilginizi \u00e7ekmek i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 bile, yeterince zaman ay\u0131ramaman\u0131n verdi\u011fi vicdan azab\u0131 ile yok say\u0131yorsan\u0131z, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda onar\u0131lana kadar hayat\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131s\u0131tlayan yaralar a\u00e7ars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sizin sa\u00e7ma g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u015feylerle u\u011fra\u015fmas\u0131na engel olmay\u0131n. En b\u00fcy\u00fck ba\u015far\u0131lar, insanlar taraf\u0131ndan sa\u00e7ma bulunan ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman dalga ge\u00e7ilen u\u011fra\u015flardan do\u011fmu\u015ftur. B\u0131rak\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za icat \u00e7\u0131kars\u0131n. Ya\u015fama katk\u0131da bulunman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretin.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar programlanmalar\u0131 tamamlanana kadar do\u011fal trans durumundad\u0131rlar. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman hi\u00e7bir bilgisi olmad\u0131klar\u0131 ve bilin\u00e7altlar\u0131nda herhangi bir bilginin kay\u0131tl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 durumlarda verdi\u011finiz telkinler direk bilin\u00e7altlar\u0131na ula\u015f\u0131r. Sizler sorumlusunuz. Her yorumunuz her konu\u015fman\u0131z her plan\u0131n\u0131z siz bir g\u00fcn unutsan\u0131z bile onun bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na kaz\u0131nacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ve huzur\u2026 Unutmay\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z bir kez \u00e7ocuk olacaklar. \u00c7ocukluklar\u0131nda tamamlanmam\u0131\u015f bir duygu ya da ya\u015fayamad\u0131klar\u0131 bir d\u00f6nem olursa daima enerjileri eksik, mutsuz ve isteksiz bireyler yeti\u015ftirmeye devam edece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n

Huzur sizinle olsun.<\/p>\n

Sevgiyle Kal\u0131n,<\/p>\n

\u0130nci AKTA\u015e-Ya\u015fam Ko\u00e7u NLP Uzman\u0131<\/p>\n

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Ya\u015fam Ko\u00e7u NLP Uzman\u0131 \u0130nci AKTA\u015e Belki de \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmaya karar vermeden \u00f6nce derin derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi ve planlanmas\u0131 gereken konu bu\u2026 \u00c7ocu\u011fumu nas\u0131l yeti\u015ftirece\u011fim? \u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek ne demek?  \u00c7ocu\u011fumun […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3,1],"tags":[243,242,214,109],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/904"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=904"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/904\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4530,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/904\/revisions\/4530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=904"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=904"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.akademiplena.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=904"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}